Saturday, November 20, 2010
11 weeks
11 WEEKS!
Well it turns out I am a bit further along than thought--actually, I kind of figured I had to be with the timing of things....Anyway, the ultrasound today confirmed it. I am at least 11 weeks. Well baby Moe you were very cute and wonderfully entertaining at the ultrasound today. We watched your little heart flutter and you kept jumping around--your whole body would just lift and float back down. Very entertaining. You also waved to us. Your tiny little fingers--BEAUTIFUL! Aren't you just God's Amazing Creation! We also saw your tiny little feet. And of course your oversized head filled with SCHNAKE brain!
How blessed we are--and how blessed I am. I also just found out that another friend is expecting at about the same time we are. YEAH!
So the due date was May 8, but I guess that will be moved up to May 1st or something around that. I guess I will wait for the doc to tell us. Anyway it is seeming VERY likely we will have an April baby! YEAH!
17 week update---
Well this kiddo is dancing and moving. Food is always a motivator. We have dubbed this kid as "Moe" declaring Ky our "Larry", Alaina our "Curly", and so as you can see "Moe" just fits. (That and Rob and I ran out of name combinations...)
When we told Ky there was a baby in our tummy, he was in disbelief. He told me that my tummy wasn't big enough. Since then we have convinced him that the baby is in there and growing (and he can tell now by the bulge that is beginning.) As you can see from the top picture, one of the kids new favorite games (initiated by Ky of course) is to shove a baby doll up their shirt and declare they are pregnant. I am pretty sure Alaina is really clueless in the whole thing. We have tried to explain the concept of a new baby to her--but well--she has other things to focus on. Right now, I think she is convinced that she has a baby in her tummy...Hmmmm...Hopefully we can get this situation rectified before April.
We told the kids first that way they could tell the relatives. We were not planning on telling anyone yet, but Mom & Jan were moving and we volunteered to help--and then they wanted me to help paint. Well there was no way to "weasel" out of that except to 'fess up. So Ky got to tell the news--and of course everyone was excited.
We then had Ky share it with Pops & Debi, who "already knew?" Bummer....
My mom had known instantly. Around 6 weeks or so she had called and woke me up during a nap (in the middle of the day) and accused me of being pregnant. It says a lot about how much that woman knows me--she KNOWS I would not be sleeping during the middle of the day--and there had to be a good reason. I didn't even have a definite answer for her then. But, of course, she knows now.
Ky has spilled the beans to a few other people. I did a FB post hoping to inform the rest--but I suppose there are probably some people that still don't know. Well soon enough they will figure it out (or Ky will tell them.) We are excited. And yes we are finding out the gender--and no we are not telling you--you will just have to wait. I need to start getting rid of those bins of clothes in my basement though--so once I find out what we are having, I will start sorting and setting aside the clothes I can get rid of. (I will wait until after birth though--because the last thing I want to do is get stuck with a bunch of the wrong gender clothes because they didn't see things correctly in the ultrasound.)
As of now, I believe the official due date is May 2. I meet with the Dr. this week to have that confirmed. Since April 24th is Easter--we will either aim for a few days before or after to have the baby. April 27th--might be too late, so I think there is a better chance of having the baby prior to Easter. Either way is fine by me.
My cravings have changed now from meat to salad and carbs. Buttered Noodles and Olive Garden salad have been serious WANTS (though I have yet to try out the OG--but SOON!) We are going to the Melting Pot this weekend with some friends who are expecting at the same time as us. I am so excited for the food! (oh yeah and the friendship too! :) )
Well that is all for preggo posts for now. I have to get back to my general family posts....which I think I am doing pretty well on...Hopefully I can get caught up in the next couple weeks or so. Until then!
Well it turns out I am a bit further along than thought--actually, I kind of figured I had to be with the timing of things....Anyway, the ultrasound today confirmed it. I am at least 11 weeks. Well baby Moe you were very cute and wonderfully entertaining at the ultrasound today. We watched your little heart flutter and you kept jumping around--your whole body would just lift and float back down. Very entertaining. You also waved to us. Your tiny little fingers--BEAUTIFUL! Aren't you just God's Amazing Creation! We also saw your tiny little feet. And of course your oversized head filled with SCHNAKE brain!
How blessed we are--and how blessed I am. I also just found out that another friend is expecting at about the same time we are. YEAH!
So the due date was May 8, but I guess that will be moved up to May 1st or something around that. I guess I will wait for the doc to tell us. Anyway it is seeming VERY likely we will have an April baby! YEAH!
17 week update---
Well this kiddo is dancing and moving. Food is always a motivator. We have dubbed this kid as "Moe" declaring Ky our "Larry", Alaina our "Curly", and so as you can see "Moe" just fits. (That and Rob and I ran out of name combinations...)
When we told Ky there was a baby in our tummy, he was in disbelief. He told me that my tummy wasn't big enough. Since then we have convinced him that the baby is in there and growing (and he can tell now by the bulge that is beginning.) As you can see from the top picture, one of the kids new favorite games (initiated by Ky of course) is to shove a baby doll up their shirt and declare they are pregnant. I am pretty sure Alaina is really clueless in the whole thing. We have tried to explain the concept of a new baby to her--but well--she has other things to focus on. Right now, I think she is convinced that she has a baby in her tummy...Hmmmm...Hopefully we can get this situation rectified before April.
We told the kids first that way they could tell the relatives. We were not planning on telling anyone yet, but Mom & Jan were moving and we volunteered to help--and then they wanted me to help paint. Well there was no way to "weasel" out of that except to 'fess up. So Ky got to tell the news--and of course everyone was excited.
We then had Ky share it with Pops & Debi, who "already knew?" Bummer....
My mom had known instantly. Around 6 weeks or so she had called and woke me up during a nap (in the middle of the day) and accused me of being pregnant. It says a lot about how much that woman knows me--she KNOWS I would not be sleeping during the middle of the day--and there had to be a good reason. I didn't even have a definite answer for her then. But, of course, she knows now.
Ky has spilled the beans to a few other people. I did a FB post hoping to inform the rest--but I suppose there are probably some people that still don't know. Well soon enough they will figure it out (or Ky will tell them.) We are excited. And yes we are finding out the gender--and no we are not telling you--you will just have to wait. I need to start getting rid of those bins of clothes in my basement though--so once I find out what we are having, I will start sorting and setting aside the clothes I can get rid of. (I will wait until after birth though--because the last thing I want to do is get stuck with a bunch of the wrong gender clothes because they didn't see things correctly in the ultrasound.)
As of now, I believe the official due date is May 2. I meet with the Dr. this week to have that confirmed. Since April 24th is Easter--we will either aim for a few days before or after to have the baby. April 27th--might be too late, so I think there is a better chance of having the baby prior to Easter. Either way is fine by me.
My cravings have changed now from meat to salad and carbs. Buttered Noodles and Olive Garden salad have been serious WANTS (though I have yet to try out the OG--but SOON!) We are going to the Melting Pot this weekend with some friends who are expecting at the same time as us. I am so excited for the food! (oh yeah and the friendship too! :) )
Well that is all for preggo posts for now. I have to get back to my general family posts....which I think I am doing pretty well on...Hopefully I can get caught up in the next couple weeks or so. Until then!
It's Official!
A new "favorite" game of the kids--shoving babies up their shirts and declaring themselves pregnant. |
I don't think the doc was too happy that I waited so long to come in (at almost 8 weeks). They couldn't schedule me until 9.5 weeks and they like to see you by 8. My argument is that nothing is going to change during that time, and if it did--it would be nothing they could do anything about. Anyway--this time during the "call" they told me that I couldn't eat any lunchmeat of any kind. In the last 2 pregnancies neither of my docs said anything about lunchmeat. This makes it rough for me since all I crave is MEAT! (Can you sense this is a boy?) I don't know what I am going to do. The ham in the fridge looks SOOOOO GOOOD! ARGH. I am going to have a rebuttal with this at my first appointment.
October 8--
I had my first "appointment". It was very frustrating. They were running an hour behind. This appointment was supposed to be our chance to ask all sorts of questions, some tests run, and have the ultrasound. Well--it didn't turn out that way...UGH! It was rushed and we left winded. I felt bad and was ready to hurry home to pick up the kids (we didn't bring them because they aren't allowed in the ultrasound room--well turns out we could have brought them anyway...) ARGH!
And then on the way out we saw an accident...Okay I have to vent a minute here so hear me out...
We are the third car behind 2 cars turning left. I was angry because of the appointment and then I also realized I turned on the street without a light so it was going to be hard to turn left. That is when the car in front of me turned into the right lane and turned right. That was when I saw the sign--"No left turn 3 - 6 PM" and of course it was 5. I then started turning right to get into the right lane. The truck in front of me either didn't pay attention to the sign or disregarded it. They charged forward into the traffic. That is when we saw the motorcycle. Yeah, there was no way for that motorcycle to stop. It ran right into the back of that truck. The guy came flying off the bike. (REALLY PEOPLE--I am so against motorcycles now! How dangerous!) Anyways at this point I am freaking out. I start yelling--"We have to call 911. Get your phone!" And then my whole first aid class (which I had taken the week before) came flying into my head. Oh my--I have to help. I parked the van and dialed 911 as I ran to the motorcyclists. He was sitting up. The guy in the truck was yelling at him. (CAN YOU BELIEVE THAT! THIS DUDE JUST FLEW OFF HIS BIKE ONTO THE GROUND AND HE IS BEING YELLED AT!!) The truck driver is picking up his bumper off the ground yelling at the motorcyclist for hitting his car! Why isn't he making sure he is okay??!! Seriously...
Anyway, I yelled at the truck guy to stop and said something along the lines of "he could be seriously hurt" or "now is not the time" I honestly don't remember. At this point I handed the phone off to Rob and went over to the cyclist. I got to the motorcyclist and did my whole First Aid line of "Hi, I am trained in First Aid, can I help you?" (Ari should be very proud of me.) I spent some time talking to him. I found out his name was Bob and he was consious. He knew the date and all those fun questions. I then checked him from head to toe. He was wearing his helmet (Thank you God!). I took off his sun glasses and checked out his vision. It seemed fine. With my check we confirmed that he had pain in his right chest and tail bone (he landed hard on his butt.) I was concerned at this point with a spinal cord injury so I then spent the remainder of my time trying to keep his head still. Another man was there on the scene as well. He said he was an ex-EMT and began removing his helmet. I was adamantly against that and I stated so, but I wasn't about to fight over an injured man's head. I had Rob call Bob's wife and they chatted briefly on the phone letting her know that he was in an accident. I have to say--I am so relieved I had my First Aid training. When the EMT's got there I was able to give them a rundown of the situation and they immediately put him in a neck brace.
I guess I am writing all this stuff of checking him out as more of a reflection to myself. CRAZY to think that my First Aid training would so quickly come into use. I do realize now that I probably should have checked on the other driver as well--and at least showed some compassion there. I was a bit worried about the motorcyclist though and a bit miffed at the truck guy for yelling at the cyclist--but whatever, it is not my place to judge, but to show compassion.
Anyway, afterwards we gave our account to the officer and left. Talk about a "Disaster" of an appointment. We pray for Bob though and hope that he has a full recovery. We also pray for the other driver to be humbled by this accident and to take it as something to learn from--we need to show compassion to everyone, no matter what the situation.
Wednesday, November 17, 2010
Kylan's haircut
Before... |
After |
Things went really well and I was impressed by how easy the clippers went. When it came time to clean up his sideburns, I discovered the clippers did not do a good job. So I had Rob go get his shaver and he then attempted to trim them. BIG MISTAKE. They were crooked. I told him he had to fix them and then they got worse. Next thing I knew Ky was sitting in the chair with no sideburns. Poor kid looked like an Amish lad. At that point we felt we had no choice but to take "ALL" of it off. So yes, I trimmed my sweet boys head. I almost cried. I love his hair long. *Sigh* And now he looks so much older...
So lesson learned--don't let Rob near Ky's hair. And yes we will be growing it back out.
Room For Three
Well they fit....
Three carseats in the back of the Camry.
Yes--if you haven't figured it out, I am expecting. The due date is May 8. Since I will be doing a c-section (I am not going to risk a V-Bac after my scary delivery with Alaina), I am hoping we might be able to have the baby April 24 to coincide with August 24 (our anniversary) and September 24 (Alaina's b'day). My second ideal date is April 27--this would go with the "7" trend. Ky's b'day is on the 7th, I'm on the 17th, the new one would be on the 27th. But who knows how much say I will have with the date.
So do you find it odd that I already tested the back of the Camry for fitting carseats? Well--I did. As with each pregnancy, I went through about a week of total panic once I knew--and one of those panic moments was "will we always be limited to the van? What if it breaks down? Do we need to trade the Camry in?" Before I jump too far ahead in this blog, I should probably start back at the beginning...
Prior to marriage, Rob and I had discussed kids. I had wanted 3, he had wanted 2. We figured sometime down the line we would figure it out. Well, after 2 kids, I was really unsure about having a third, but always kept it in the back of my mind. Two kids are a lot of work--but THREE??Can I handle three? Of course, I then gave it to God and prayed about it. I prayed that Rob and my hearts would want the same thing. Whether that be 2 or 3 kids, we would both be content with the same. So we always kept the option of 3 kids open. Rob occasionally would ask me, and I would tell him that I am still torn. Finally we had a discussion in August. I told him that I do want a third, but I was really scared and wasn't sure if wanted to commit. I also told him that I had an "idealized" timeline--which meant us getting pregnant this month or maybe not at all. Rob said "let's just see what happens". Well just like Ky and Alaina--God quickly blessed us.
Once again, I knew about a week before you can usually find out. There were the tell-tale signs. The week that would confirm sent me into a panic. I couldn't sleep. I was up hours every night--often on the computer googling stupid things like "Do 3 car seats fit in a sedan?" and "How does going from 2 -3 children affect your family?" --BTW--I highly recommend NOT googling that, because only bad and more worrisome stuff came up--such as, you can only book suites at hotels b/c they won't let you put 5 in a room (by the way this is UNTRUE of most hotels) and 3 car seats rarely fit in the back of a car. (which as you can see, I proved wrong! HA!) Also then tons of abortion topics came up--and that just is NOT an option.
After about 5 days of this worrisome panic filled with many tears, I had a breakthrough. It happened at Lifegroup (our church group made up of 3 families.) We were discussing how God has control of everything and how wonderfully he has planned and made all of our lives and that is why he has protected us. WOW! At that moment I realized how selfish I was. God chose me to be the mommy of this little baby. He so carefully prepared us for this child. He put his own touch in creating this little being. How selfish am I? And honestly a lot of it came down to convenience. Nothing is convenient in life. However, God has always prepared us for the difficult times and been with us throughout it all. He is faithful. He chose us as parents for this child because he knew we would succeed in raising him/her in his ways. WOW! Isn't God awesome!? And how flattered am I to have been chosen to take care of this little being, this piece of work--God's creation.
After that Lifegroup and since I have slept through the night. My heart has been at peace (of course I still wonder about things--but I know that God is by my side and everything will be just fine.)
So here I am now about 7 weeks pregnant and for the last week I have been STARVING! WOW! I just want to eat and eat and eat and eat and eat. I have held back. I am already starting to show. I need to fit in my pants a little while longer yet. We were hoping to keep it from Rob's side until T-giving, but I don't think that is going to happen. I have yet to take the pee test for the doc. I am just not interested in toting my urine into the clinic again. It was embarrassing enough last time. They won't really do anything anyway until I am 10 weeks or so. So I am just biding my time.
I know my friend Rachel is pregnant too. I really want to have a preggo buddy--but she isn't telling anyone (including me) so I don't want to push her. Rachel--if you are there--I totally watched you down that Big Mac at Mc'D's a couple of weeks ago and I knew. You were eating like I wish I was. Seriously though...Another month and we can get on with things and not feel so secretive.
If it is a boy, that would be nice because then even though Alaina is a middle child, she would be the only girl and hopefully override any "middle child" syndrome. If it is a girl, however, then Alaina will have a best friend and TONS of clothes to pass down and share with her little sister. We will find out the gender for my own sanity. I have to start getting rid of all the clothes in the basement. I have 4 years of boys and girls clothes right now (yes girls--I have been blessed with hand me downs!)
Well I think I will end this blog here. I am very excited for you little one! I can't wait until I feel you! Love you!
Three carseats in the back of the Camry.
Yes--if you haven't figured it out, I am expecting. The due date is May 8. Since I will be doing a c-section (I am not going to risk a V-Bac after my scary delivery with Alaina), I am hoping we might be able to have the baby April 24 to coincide with August 24 (our anniversary) and September 24 (Alaina's b'day). My second ideal date is April 27--this would go with the "7" trend. Ky's b'day is on the 7th, I'm on the 17th, the new one would be on the 27th. But who knows how much say I will have with the date.
So do you find it odd that I already tested the back of the Camry for fitting carseats? Well--I did. As with each pregnancy, I went through about a week of total panic once I knew--and one of those panic moments was "will we always be limited to the van? What if it breaks down? Do we need to trade the Camry in?" Before I jump too far ahead in this blog, I should probably start back at the beginning...
Prior to marriage, Rob and I had discussed kids. I had wanted 3, he had wanted 2. We figured sometime down the line we would figure it out. Well, after 2 kids, I was really unsure about having a third, but always kept it in the back of my mind. Two kids are a lot of work--but THREE??Can I handle three? Of course, I then gave it to God and prayed about it. I prayed that Rob and my hearts would want the same thing. Whether that be 2 or 3 kids, we would both be content with the same. So we always kept the option of 3 kids open. Rob occasionally would ask me, and I would tell him that I am still torn. Finally we had a discussion in August. I told him that I do want a third, but I was really scared and wasn't sure if wanted to commit. I also told him that I had an "idealized" timeline--which meant us getting pregnant this month or maybe not at all. Rob said "let's just see what happens". Well just like Ky and Alaina--God quickly blessed us.
Once again, I knew about a week before you can usually find out. There were the tell-tale signs. The week that would confirm sent me into a panic. I couldn't sleep. I was up hours every night--often on the computer googling stupid things like "Do 3 car seats fit in a sedan?" and "How does going from 2 -3 children affect your family?" --BTW--I highly recommend NOT googling that, because only bad and more worrisome stuff came up--such as, you can only book suites at hotels b/c they won't let you put 5 in a room (by the way this is UNTRUE of most hotels) and 3 car seats rarely fit in the back of a car. (which as you can see, I proved wrong! HA!) Also then tons of abortion topics came up--and that just is NOT an option.
After about 5 days of this worrisome panic filled with many tears, I had a breakthrough. It happened at Lifegroup (our church group made up of 3 families.) We were discussing how God has control of everything and how wonderfully he has planned and made all of our lives and that is why he has protected us. WOW! At that moment I realized how selfish I was. God chose me to be the mommy of this little baby. He so carefully prepared us for this child. He put his own touch in creating this little being. How selfish am I? And honestly a lot of it came down to convenience. Nothing is convenient in life. However, God has always prepared us for the difficult times and been with us throughout it all. He is faithful. He chose us as parents for this child because he knew we would succeed in raising him/her in his ways. WOW! Isn't God awesome!? And how flattered am I to have been chosen to take care of this little being, this piece of work--God's creation.
After that Lifegroup and since I have slept through the night. My heart has been at peace (of course I still wonder about things--but I know that God is by my side and everything will be just fine.)
So here I am now about 7 weeks pregnant and for the last week I have been STARVING! WOW! I just want to eat and eat and eat and eat and eat. I have held back. I am already starting to show. I need to fit in my pants a little while longer yet. We were hoping to keep it from Rob's side until T-giving, but I don't think that is going to happen. I have yet to take the pee test for the doc. I am just not interested in toting my urine into the clinic again. It was embarrassing enough last time. They won't really do anything anyway until I am 10 weeks or so. So I am just biding my time.
I know my friend Rachel is pregnant too. I really want to have a preggo buddy--but she isn't telling anyone (including me) so I don't want to push her. Rachel--if you are there--I totally watched you down that Big Mac at Mc'D's a couple of weeks ago and I knew. You were eating like I wish I was. Seriously though...Another month and we can get on with things and not feel so secretive.
I did weigh myself today. I have only gained 2 lbs, which could easily be explained away with vacations. However, I am gaining it all in one place. UGH! I look forward to the 2nd trimester when things get a little more enjoyable and I start to feel the baby move. It makes things more real.
So do I want a boy or girl. Either would be fine. I always envisioned myself with boys so I wouldn't be surprised if it is a boy--especially with my appetite. All I want is MEAT & Carbs!
Well I think I will end this blog here. I am very excited for you little one! I can't wait until I feel you! Love you!
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